25 Steps for Improving Inter-Personal Relations
“Interact in a way that makes you feel competent and effective, not helpless and overly dependent. Stand up for yourself, your beliefs and opinions; follow your own wise mind.”


1. Accept responsibility.

2. Show consideration, courtesy, & politeness.

3. Think win/win.

4. Choose what you say rather than say what you choose

5. Don’t criticize & complain.

6. Smile & be kind.

7. Put positive interpretation on other people’s behavior.

8. Be a good listener.

9. Live while you are alive.

10. Give honest & sincere appreciation.

11. When we make a mistake, we should accept it immediately & willingly.

12. Discuss but don’t argue

13. Don’t gossip.

14. Turn your promises into commitments.

15. Be grateful but do not expect gratitude

16. Be dependable & practice loyalty.

17. Avoid bearing grudges.

18. Practice honesty, integrity & sincerity.

19. Practice humility.

20. Be understanding & caring.

.21. Practice courtesy on a daily basis•

22. Develop a sense of humor.

23. Don’t be sarcastic & put others down

24.To have a friend, be a friend.

25. Show empathy.

Regards